I feel bad because I had a thought, in middle school, I knew a person, who was bi, she came out to everyone..

Me as a lateeedah middle schooler (2005) not knowing what “bi sexual” meant, I was trying to be with the cool kids and stuff, never really could, they told me to go over to her and point and laugh. I was 6th grade.. I had no clue…what it meant to be bullied at that time.

I walk over to her ask her if she’s bi she says yes. I point but I give a little… heheh kind of laugh.

Now that I’m older, and understand what it means and things. I feel terrible for even doing that little bit to her…I didn’t know what a penis was in 6th grade..

She didn’t deserve that…. I never got to apologize… because she moved schools with the bullying and stuff… I knew what it felt like to be bullied.

I do support gay rights and I support it all.. . I wish she knew today.. that if any one bothers her I’ll stand by her side..

So I guess it’s National Boyfriend day??

I dunno stupid holidays.

My boyfriend Clayton :)

My national boyfriend day gift is figuring out what to get him for his 24th birthday ….in two and half weeks.

Hey tumblr, with boyfriends and girlfriends and a significant other,

I need your help.

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and seven months.

We’ve napped together and we’re both adults here, but we never slept over each other’s house, my mom and step dad are crazy strict, they don’t care if I am an adult or not. His parents are the same also. I’m on protection and all, but here’s our plan is to stay in a cheap hotel for a night so we can have our alone time together, ya know? he and I really don’t know how to plan that. Halp. pwease

A little message out to you girls before you give away your virginity. 

I had to learn my lesson the hard way about my virginity. At first I felt my virginity meant nothing. This is also to a special person whose following me.

I changed the name of the message to anon for personal reasons. (it’s mine but that was me in like 10th grade) I didn’t know any better at the time. Yes I still had feelings for this person for a while, but eventually, I took time and learned over time that there are way better things in life.

Look, I had to learn the hard way..This person said, I was the school freak and what not, and because I am black, they wouldn’t date me, but they were perfectly fine with taking my virginity from me. Yes I was 14 going on 15 when I lost it, but everyone learns in some way.  I was basically a one night stand to him.

I eventually learned it gets better. I look at it as a blessing in a way that I was able to experience that and move on. It was hard. Yes. But you grow from your mistakes. We both go our different ways. Take this time out to grow. NEVER let a guy be your number one priority ;)

Any of you girls out there that may or may not reblog this this goes out to all of you.

I just had a thought why did my boyfriend ask me out on 9/11/11

Oh my gosh I dunno if we should make it September 10th or September 12th lol.

I love him so. :p This is why I shouldn’t be up this late.

People wonder why I stay away from facebook

On a serious note she is my friend but I just had too..

Girls, you are beautiful, You don’t need a man to tell you that.

I have been with Clay a year and five months and I was still nervous and had those little butterflies to kiss him at midnight. (≧◡≦)

My boyfriend and I were talking about engagment 

My boyfriend and I were talking about engagment

So bored at 4:30 am  

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